A relationship with no trust is like a car without fuel. You can stay in it, but it won’t go anywhere.
Trust is the most important thing in a relationship. It won’t work if you don’t trust each other. Many couples drift apart after a few years of a cozy romantic relationship because of the lack of trust, because of constant lies and also because of the fact that one partner starts feeling that cheating is a fair business practice in a relationship.
No, it is not and never will be. Truthfulness is a virtue that keep the bond strong and relationship alive. If there is no trust, there won’t be any relationship because trust is the foundation stone of any relationship specially between a couple.
There is a reason why a wise man has once that
‘Give the person you love honesty, respect, trust and passion or be prepared to watch from the sidelines as someone else does it’.
Here we are giving you top tips to build trust in a relationship. Have a look –
Tip #1: Honor your words
You should not flip flop once you have said something or promised something. Your commitment should never be compromised and any diversion from your promise should be communicated to your partner precisely and clearly. You should not take him / her for granted.
Tip #2: Make decisions carefully
Decisions should always be taken only after deep thinking and evaluating every pros and cons. You should always keep your partner informed whenever you are taking a decision – big or small that may make an impact on your life. The best way is to communicate with your partner regularly and transparently without any baggage.
Tip #3: Consistency is important
Always remember your words and be consistent. Do not change your opinions or views or perceptions frequently as it creates a lot confusion and makes you a person with a dubious character. You should be firm once you have made your opinion and stick to that doesn’t matter what other may feel about it.
Tip #4: Honesty is the best policy
Honest always pays. You should always keep your partner informed if you have committed a mistake. You will be forgiven for committing a mistake but hiding it from your partner may invite a lot of heart burn in future. It is always a good policy to be honest about your work, relationship and financial conditions to ensure that your partner’s trust in you remains intact.
Tip #5: Do the right things
You should try and do the things that you feel are right. You should always try and stay away from things that you feel are not good or may result in disaster despite looking good in earlier phase. This will create a lot of trust in your partner. They will see you as someone who doesn’t take the easy way out of a situation instead remains of the side of truth.